Long ago, Avenue Q proclaimed in their song that ‘the Internet is for porn‘. At a time when access to the Internet is so widespread that a simple reach into one’s pocket is enough to immerse into an endless web of sites, access to pornography is equally widespread. Unfortunately, this results in a lot of people, especially young, mistaking the scenes played by professional actors, as a reflection of real life.
Who is Ryan Keely?
Ryan Keely has taken on a unique status: the talented MILF performer (and top 1% performer on OnlyFans) has become both legendary and an artistic inspiration within the current crop of the industry’s most popular adult film stars. The captivating onscreen talent, who started her adult career as a ‘smut shop clerk’ at 18, made her film debut in 2006 as a lesbian performer and has built a prolific body of work in the years since.
Keely’s career hit a high note in 2011 when she was selected as Penthouse Magazine’s Pet of the Year Runner-Up, and Penthouse Forum’s Sex & Dating advice columnist for ‘The Dirty Details’, where she fused her love of sex and education to help millions of fans in their own relationships.
Keely has widened her range in adult productions, performing with male partners to create incredible scenes for both her own content platforms and for the biggest production companies in the world. Ryan has also come into her own as a dominatrix, a producer of her own BDSM content, and works closely with new performers and other big names in the ever-changing landscape of adult film.
With many years of experience as both an actress and an educator, Keely is more than capable of explaining why what we see on screen should not necessarily be what we do in the bedroom, and which sexual positions are worth trying out for ourselves.
The best positions according to Ryan
Ryan Keely says the tangled gymnastics that porn stars often perform on screen aren’t necessarily the most desirable to try out in real life.
“I feel like adult performers should be doing more public service announcements to young viewers about the scenes they see in our films,” says the 15-year industry veteran of the wildly dynamic erotic imbroglios she regularly finds herself in.”
“We are paid to shoot scenes that are frequently NOT REALISTIC for average people having sex, because we are portraying a fantasy for fans who are enjoying a voyeuristic angle from a director’s POV. Sex is about giving and receiving pleasure, NOT a race to the finish with pile drivers, rapid-fire slamming and cardio bursts that are more exhausting than enjoyable.”
Keely explains that there are two positions that deserve more respect: “Missionary, or mish, is my all-time personal fave. I know I’m not the only person that appreciates the intimacy of being face- to-face with my partner, full body contact and the unlimited number of variations on this classic. Some may call it vanilla, but I think it is truly a kaleidoscope of orgasmic possibilities. I’m still discovering new ways to rock it!”
“But I really want to give a shout out to spoon, which is one of the few positions in porn that seamlessly translates to real life. You still get the intimacy of being within kissing distance of your partner, but with more G spot contact like in doggy, and easier access for caressing the clit without having to break that body-to-body contact like you would in mish, or awkward fumbling. Plus, who doesn’t like to be the little spoon from time to time?”
Reverse cowgirl, on the other hand, “is one of those positions that you will see in almost every single porn scene but really sucks. Even as a highly trained professional, it is one of my least favorites. Visually it’s fantastic – you see the entire female body and the penetration – but physically it’s hard to perform. It requires doing a lot a squats, and fairly quickly, on that dick and for me, it hits nowhere near my G spot and as I’m using both of my arms for balance, I can’t rub my clit.”
Keely recommends one position in particular that’s ideal for intimacy with a partner: “Yab Yum is a tantric essential and one of the bases of Kama Sutra; it involves both partners facing each other in a sitting position, holding each other, and making eye contact.”
“Some say it can reawaken chakras if you’re into all that fun stuff, but for me, I love being able to connect with my partner deeply, through touch, eye contact and I might even take a little nibble on his ear or cheek if we’re that close.”
In summary, the showy gymnastic stunts that the actors perform on screen are intended to offer the most visually appealing scene possible. These kinds of positions, while they can, are not meant to give pleasure and feelings of intimacy to the partners – it is the viewer who is supposed to enjoy watching them. On the other hand, the best sexual positions to introduce into your bedroom are those that give a feeling of closeness and intimacy, while offering the best opportunity to stimulate different parts of the body.
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