Warsaw Femdom Party, event not only for femdom lovers

Soon, on August 21, 2021 in Warsaw, Poland, a unique event called Warsaw Femdom Party will take place. The event is aimed at femdom enthusiasts as well as beginners who are just looking to explore this variety of BDSM. The main organizer of the event, Korri Pearl talked to ErotisNews and explained what Femdom is and what rules and attractions will take place during the second edition of Warsaw Femdom Party.

 

Atmosphere and class instead of sex

The first edition of Warsaw Femdom Party (WFP) which took place on November 9, 2019, was a unique event because, unlike other large BDSM events, it did not focus on carnality and the pursuit of fulfilling the most creative sexual fantasies. WFP was an event that placed great emphasis on aesthetics and high class. It is more accurate to compare it to a burlesque show, where the right atmosphere, behavior and dress are important, than to a swingers’ party, where sexual activity is in the foreground.

The first edition was in fact a test whether my vision of Warsaw Femdom Party will be appreciated by demanding femdom adepts. I took a risk and I succeeded. I wanted to create a party on a very high level in every aspect, both in terms of location and attractions. I also wanted to show femdom from the aspect of aesthetics and class of Dominating Women – describes the first edition of WFP organizer. – The feedback after the event was very positive and numerous. Recently one of the participants wrote me that the first edition of WFP ‘was legendary’. For these and other very warm words of appreciation it was worth sacrificing almost half a year of laborious preparation and promotion.

What is Femdom?

In order to better understand the atmosphere and attractions that take place during WFP, it is first worth knowing what femdom is. Femdom is a variety of BDSM that strongly emphasizes the second letter behind this acronym – domination. In this case, the woman is the dominant side and her partner (not necessarily a man) is the submissive one.

What femdom is, was very well explained by Korri Pearl – The word is an abbreviation of Female Domination. It is one of the variations of the BDSM subculture, in which it is the woman who takes on the dominant role, while the man (or another woman, trans, non-binary person), takes on the submissive role.

Like any BDSM practice, female domination is carried out according to the principles of SSC – Safe, Sane, Consensual. So, the transfer of control is completely voluntary, secure and within the allowable limits set by the partners. In femdom, as in all BDSM, there is no place for violence, mental or physical. It’s a way of deriving pleasure from slightly different than considered traditional sexual practices, the range of which is extremely wide – starting from very mild things like foot fetish and servicing a woman, up to quite strong practices connected with, for example, consciously inflicting and accepting pain – explains the organizer.

This means that at WFP only women can play the dominant role and men can only be submissive. However, this does not mean that it is an event exclusively for dominant ladies. That is the beauty of the interaction between two people in BDSM, that it is a mutual arrangement that both parties agree to. Submissives will also find themselves at this event.

The organizer explained that the event is held for – Dominant Women and submissive men, although not only men can be submissive. However, experience is not important, you can just enter the arcana of femdom and come to see how others practice it. It is also for lonely people, looking for their climatic half.[…] WFP crew consisting of Dominant Ladies will encourage participants to participate in various activities, so that no one will feel alienated or lonely with us.

Attractions at the II edition of Warsaw Femdom Party

The first edition of the event, despite the fact that it only paved the way for the event taking place on 21 August in Warsaw, offered many attractions to the participants. Among them were preformers’ shows, a slave market, a foot fetish bar, a lottery with prizes, or exhibitors’ stands with accessories.

Korri Pearl revealed what attractions can be expected during the second edition of WFP:

This edition will have a strong artistic accent, which at first glance may seem unusual in the context of BDSM. But for me it is very logical, because femdom is a celebration of female beauty.

That is why we are organizing the vernissage of paintings by two female painters […] and, above all, the event will be attended by ballet artists – Dark Ballerina, a performer, artist, ballerina and also stretch and ballet trainer, and she will be partnered by Gieorgij Grzegorz Puchalski – a professional dancer and dance teacher, the leading finalist of the second Polish edition of “You Can Dance”.

The event will be hosted by Betty Q – a well-known burlesque artist, co-founder of Madame Q and initiator of the Burlesque Academy, author of choreographies for films, music videos and theater. For the fans of stronger sensations we will have a surprise, a show of a very experienced performer from Latvia, who will perform in Poland for the first time at this type of event. Even for the cast alone, WFP is worth coming to!

In addition to the shows, during the event there will be competitions, lottery with prizes and ‘fair of BDSM and erotic gadgets and accessories‘ where the exhibitors will present their products. However, one of the first points of the event is the so-called ‘Speed Dating‘.

At the second edition we will offer the participants to take part in Speed Dating – it is a great chance to overcome one’s shyness and meet someone interesting in a safe environment – explains Korri.

Slave market and playroom

However, the most intriguing attractions that will take place during the event are: Slave Market and Playroom Fun. The organizer explained what is hidden under these names.

A slave market is – A type of social game in the form of an auction, where a Dominatrix can bid for a slave to serve her for the duration of the event. The currency of the WFP is piesos [‘pies’ mean dog Ed.] – on these “bills” you can see a friendly dog holding a leash in its teeth, which quite clearly symbolizes the meaning of this game. Ladies bid with roses. For many men this is an extremely attractive form of presenting themselves and a unique chance to put themselves at the service of a beautiful lady, even if only for a few hours – explains the organizer.

However, not every submissive male will have the opportunity to be exhibited during the market. To participate in the slave market, one must apply using a special form by August 14. Only 12 lucky participants will be selected from among all the applications.

In the case of the playroom Korri explained – Playroom is a special room in which there will stand BDSM furniture from the Polish company Luxxx.eu. These include a bed, a couch for special tasks, a cage with a cross of St. Andrew or a seat for bondage. Playroom is intended as a place for integrative games for participants, of course done safely and with consent. There will also be an artistic performance in the playroom, as there will be an unusual fetish living sculpture.

Specific event rules

It is clear that WFP is an unusual, but at the same time unique event, which strongly emphasizes in what direction it is heading. Therefore, there are several uncommon points in the terms of the event.

Dominant women may only be addressed in an appropriate manner, and the use of the safe word ‘Truskawka’ (Strawberry) will terminate any activity between two people. Additionally, during the event there is a dress code and a complete prohibition of any form of sex, photography and male domination. On top of that, each participant highlights their preference by choosing a wristband in the color that suits them:

  • Red – indicate that this person likes more daring and painful practices.
  • Blue – indicating that the submissive person prefers fetishes that do not leave marks on the body.
  • White – indicates that the person is just taking his/her first steps in femdom and wants to observe and learn more about this culture.

Korri Pearl explains that the purpose of the rules is – First and foremost for the safety and comfort of the participants, as well as to maintain a high level and specific convention of Female Domination. It is difficult to even imagine a democratic “You” in relation to ladies with a spitzer in hand, high heels and phenomenal outfits at such an event.

Despite clear rules that explicitly state what practices may and may not take place during the party, it was not without problems. WFP had to change the location of the event at the last minute as a result of an anonymous letter, the contents of which are unknown.

The organizer of the event commented on the location change – Unfortunately I can’t disclose the details, but I’ll be brief: I’d like to thank the anonymous person, who wrote an absurd letter, as a result of which we finally changed the location of the 2nd edition. Thanks to his viciousness, and our determination and luck, we found a wonderful and friendly place, which is the XOXO club, where the 2nd edition of Warsaw Femdom Party will take place – everyone is welcome!

Warsaw Femdom Party will take place on August 21, 2021, the party starts at 21:00 in XOXO club in Warsaw, Poland.

Tickets for the Warsaw Femdom Party can be purchased on the event website here. And for the latest updates on the event, check out WFP’s social media sites – Facebook, Instagram and Fetlife.

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